These are 5 things that I think make me appear as a confident person, not just in a sexual way but also for job interviews, and daily life. Please enjoy!
Your smile says so much about you! Idk about you but I have to consciously make myself smile. I have a serious case of “resting bitch face”. But when I smile and laugh a deep throaty laugh that tends to tell people that I am comfortable with myself, and confident that I understand my situation. I am also very aggressive, both in a sexual way as well as with my passions and sharing them! I only speak on topics that I know enough about to not sound foolish. And there are still people who will tell me I’m wrong and try to make me look foolish. And I will either politely correct them or see #4.
2. Don’t react
Instead of having an instant reaction to something that is happening in your life it can be important to take a deep breath. Instead of reacting to your life it is valuable to be examined before action. You cannot change the way the world is but you can change the way you look at it and how you feel about it. One thing I hear about myself all the time is my positive outlook. There is always a silver lining, even in the worst situations. My mother had leukemia, well that’s ok because I’ve always wanted to shave my head (she’s fine btw). That’s a pretty bleak example, it can be difficult to find the light but it is all about how you view it.
3. Be sure of what you are saying
I try not to speak about things that I don’t know. I never try to sound smarter than I really am. There is a difference between joining a conversation and admitting you don’t know much on the topic, and joining a conversation and give an opinion on something you don’t really know about. This is a great way to avoid bad impressions, and when a topic comes up that you do have a valid opinion on make sure you are vocal. Speak loud and directly and you will be recognized as an authority.
4. Know when to admit you are wrong
Someone who is confident is not afraid to admit they are wrong. Because this makes you appear as honest. Don’t feel bad for being wrong either, it takes a big person to admit that they are wrong, it takes a bigger person. To not let that failure bring you to a point of less power.
5. Your physical appearance.
This is a dicey topic. Please don’t not mistake me, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A SUPER MODEL TO BE CONFIDENT. Ok now that that’s out of the way, you should be the best version of yourself that you can be! Own yourself, if you are curvy? #curvygirls if you are skinny? #skinnybitch be who you are, that is more in style than anything on the runway, if you dress, act, speak, and be your favorite version of yourself even if you are a goofball that is confidence. If you like it, but you don’t wear it/do it for fear of what others think….
6. Stop giving a fuck what others think.
I guess this is actually the most important part right? The only person whose opinion matters of you in YOU. Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission -Elenor Roosevelt.